Friday, 26 February 2010

Manchester - Gay Capital of The UK

Manchester's Gay Village, which is centred around Canal Street, close to the Chinese centre, has just about recovered from being featured in the popular BBC series 'Queer as Folk' when it became the destination of hen and stag nights, giving it almost a zoo like status. The reason it was chosen as the location, is that it has been around for quite a while and is a the gay party capital of the UK. There are so many clubs and pubs that there is very little room for anything else. If the canal were to freeze over, they would build at least 3 clubs on the ice.

Canal Street was a once prosperous site, situated alongside the Rochdale Canal, but when rail and then road took over as the preferred method of transport, it became a dark and run down area. Given that homosexuality was illegal until the late 60's and then only legal in private if you were over 21 years old, it became a surreptitious area for cruising. Some say that it was first a big lesbian area. The Ogden Arms, then just a pub, was a prime meeting place. Now it is The Rembrandt, has a hotel, and is the favourite haunt of the leather and tattoo guys.

If you want to pay homage to its roots you should visit The Rembrandt, formerly the Ogden Arms, along with Napoleons, New York New York, Cruz 101 and The New Union as they were the beginning of the gay scene, when homophobic police raids were quite common.

Now the police have a more tolerant attitude and Canal Street is booming with pubs, clubs and restaurants, putting it on a par with London and Brighton. In fact some might say when it comes to clubbing, Manchester is the number 1 place to party. Some other bars of note are the Tribecca Bar and Bed, where the downstairs restaurant has full size beds, Cyotes and Vanilla cater to the lesbian crowd, though not exclusively, Spirit, Queer and Taurus are all worthy of a visit.

Manchester's gay credentials are further enhanced by its annual Pride celebration, which is one of the best in Europe and that a survey by Diva magazine found the Manchester Metropolitan University is the most gay friendly university in the UK.

There are numerous gay friendly hotels in the Canal Street district, along with the new apartment hotels, which means that it is easy to visit from out of town, not that you will be doing much sleeping in this vibrant city, but it makes a good site for a holiday.

Manchester has so much to offer with its rich cultural heritage, particularly in music. Despite the Liverpool sound of the Beatles, Manchester had The Hollies, Herman's Hermits and Freddy and the Dreamers who were big on both sides of the Atlantic. In fact the list of bands or musicians who have emanated from Manchester is long and illustrious such as The Smiths, Oasis, Elbow, Stone Roses, Joy Division/New Order, The Verve, Badly Drawn Boy etc., etc..

There is also an annual jazz festival plus the Hallé Orchestra and a thriving Opera scene.

Amongst the many art galleries is The Lowry, an amazing steel and glass building, rising over the old docks area, which displays the work of local hero LS Lowery along with other ventures catering for the visual and performing arts.

The theatre is thriving too, with many theatres showing a wide range of plays from the classics to the avant garde.

Manchester has its own International airport and good road and rail links, so it makes a good base if you want to visit Liverpool, the Lake District or Blackpool, which along with also having some great gay clubs, has a huge beach, the Blackpool Tower and some awesome roller coaster rides.

Sean C Lamb is a writer and photographer and is the web master of http://www.gayweddingessentials.com

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Is She a Lesbian?

I always think dating sites are the best places to find lesbian personals. There are thousands of women seeking women to be their life partners, and it is the best, most convenient, way to find the right counterpart for you. However, there are also circumstances where you find an attractive woman while at work or at your favorite club. What to do in this situation? How can you find out if the girl is also a lesbian? Here are several simple tips you can follow.

The easiest way to determine if a woman you are interested in is a lesbian is by introducing yourself and starting a conversation. While the two of you are talking, stare deep into her eyes for a little longer than you normally would. Most of the time, the woman you are engaging will stare right back for as long as you are staring her. Naturally, if she is not a lesbian, she would pull away and direct her eyes away. It requires practice to be able to catch her true intention of pulling away or staring you back just as deep, but if you can master this read than it wouldn't be hard to spot a good future partner.

Compliments can also help you determine if she is a lesbian. Depending on the situation, you can give compliments to various aspects of her look or her work. If you want to push forward, you can also place your hand on her shoulder or softly and gently touch her hand. Ask for contact info nicely and politely ask if you can contact her later. It is just a matter of good approach and politeness; you will be able to tell if she is a lesbian by seeing her responses and how she reacts to touches or certain gestures.

There are lesbian personals that are not comfortable with public display of affection. Even the slightest touch can make them feel uncomfortable. Be sure to pay close attention to responses and quit as soon as you discover any sign of discomfort at all. With these tips, you can make determining if the girl you are interested a lesbian a bit easier.

Whether you are looking for love or just friends, this is the perfect place for women seeking women. SheLikesGirlz can help you search for your best match or perfect opposite by type fem, butch, stud, tomboy and so on. You can begin your search as soon as you set up your profile. Browse lesbian personals, chat, IM, read our confessions board or post one of your own. Become a member today.

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First Time Lesbian Relationship

Entering a lesbian relationship with other lesbian personals for the first time is indeed a unique experience. It is only natural that you don't know what to expect from the relationship, and that everything is unclear or seems frightening. At this point, you know that there are a lot of women seeking women -- both online and offline -- and that you can easily pick the one you think suits you best. To ease up the process of entering a lesbian relationship for the first time, read the following insights on aspects to understand.

Being a lesbian means feeling fully comfortable for who you are. You are expressing nothing but your true self, and there is nothing wrong with that. The same rule applies for lesbian relationship; a good relationship can only work if both parties are comfortable enough with it. Take the relationship one step at a time and make sure you are comfortable with each stage. If you are not comfortable with certain things, there is no need to force yourself to cope with them.

Maintain good communication with your partner. You would have to clearly state that this is your first lesbian relationship so that she can support you through difficult times. A good partner would support you and not push you further. There's a huge difference between support and force; I'm sure you know the difference.

Start with casual dinner and occasional meet until you are totally comfortable, and then continue with the next step. Remember that you don't have to rush into anything at all so take it slow and enjoy the ride. Before you know it, you will feel completely comfortable with the current stage of the relationship and have the ability to continue to the next stages easily.

Know when to quit, and quit when you have to. There is nothing wrong with quitting a relationship if you are not comfortable with it. You don't have to be afraid to express your thoughts at all. If it can be worked out, then try to work it out. If it can't, it would be best to end the relationship nicely and try again.

Whether you are looking for love or just friends, this is the perfect place for women seeking women. SheLikesGirlz can help you search for your best match or perfect opposite by type fem, butch, stud, tomboy and so on. You can begin your search as soon as you set up your profile. Browse lesbian personals, chat, IM, read our confessions board or post one of your own. Become a member today.

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